How our mind works

Motivational, Personal Development

An easy to understand and important explanation of our mind was created by Dr. Thurman Fleet.If  we understand how our mind works we will be able to change our lives.

 

 

There are two parts of our mind:

  • The conscious part is where we make choices, think, decide and accept or reject ideas
  • The subconscious part where everything is accepted as true that comes from the conscious part of mind. It cannot make choices or accept/reject ideas

People usually get influenced by outside matters like the media, opinion of their friends, etc… If they are in a positive environment then these impacts have a positive outcome for them and they will live a good life. Those positive ideas are absorbed in our subconscious mind and we create a habit or belief out of them. The same things happens with the negative ones: we absorb them and they become  our belief or habit as well.

If we are stuck with something in our surroundings that has both positive and negative aspects we, might absorb both aspects.However, the negatives ones will hold us back from doing something we want to do. The solution is to choose only positive aspects. Ask yourself if something will benefit or worsen your life.Negative feelings are not true.We humans are creative beings.We create our own reality in our mind.

Ishi

 

Unconditional Love

Personal Development
We are in an era where people ‘find’ love through an app. You can swipe your way to find worldly love. The more you put yourself out there, the more possibilities are there to meet someone. Apparently it is a ‘cool’ game to ‘collect’ many superficial lovers. I do not see this as a ‘cool’ statistical game. To me, this is something to fill someone’s void for the wrong reasons like being lonely forever or by fulfilling their physical desires. That is why many choose someone based on shallow characteristics.
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It takes more than an app to find deep unconditional love. You have to start digging deeper inside yourself, to get to know yourself. You have to touch those places in your heart that are painful and work on them. You may lose yourself in that process, but you have to let go of these pains that are projections or expectations of what you think unconditional love is. You can say that unconditional love is like a compass. ‘What you seek, is seeking you’ (Rumi). You spread love wherever you are and all that is, shall be loved.

Love is not limited and can be spread and felt over oceans, countries and the entire universe, without craving for someone’s closeness. I, myself am single, in fact I am more single than a single person can be.  I am not seeing or even talking to anyone. However the thought that there is someone out there for me, satisfies me.
If you want to feel unconditional love, you must start living your authentic truthful self. It will enrich your being and make you focus on what will last forever.
Ishi

Misunderstood

Personal Development

Throughout the years I realized the more you become mindful, the more you feel misunderstood by others.
You have to accept the fact that everyone has a different perspective of what is right or wrong and most of us do not even try to understand a person.
Instead of connecting to those that do not understand your depth of mind and be upset with them, the best solution is to move on and find people that resonate with you. Yes, you may lose a lot of friends in this process, but the only thing that is of significance, is to find your purpose in life and build your lifestyle around it.

While your passion may seem irrelevant to others, it will fill your existence with meaning. You do not need anyone’s consent to be yourself. It is the human need of feeling socially accepted that makes one miserable. So it is totally fine, if you feel detached from the world at times. Remember that the right people will always feel driven to your personality and they will adore you for who you are.

Ishi

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