We are in an era where people ‘find’ love through an app. You can swipe your way to find worldly love. The more you put yourself out there, the more possibilities are there to meet someone. Apparently it is a ‘cool’ game to ‘collect’ many superficial lovers. I do not see this as a ‘cool’ statistical game. To me, this is something to fill someone’s void for the wrong reasons like being lonely forever or by fulfilling their physical desires. That is why many choose someone based on shallow characteristics.
It takes more than an app to find deep unconditional love. You have to start digging deeper inside yourself, to get to know yourself. You have to touch those places in your heart that are painful and work on them. You may lose yourself in that process, but you have to let go of these pains that are projections or expectations of what you think unconditional love is. You can say that unconditional love is like a compass. ‘What you seek, is seeking you’ (Rumi). You spread love wherever you are and all that is, shall be loved.
Love is not limited and can be spread and felt over oceans, countries and the entire universe, without craving for someone’s closeness. I, myself am single, in fact I am more single than a single person can be. I am not seeing or even talking to anyone. However the thought that there is someone out there for me, satisfies me.
If you want to feel unconditional love, you must start living your authentic truthful self. It will enrich your being and make you focus on what will last forever.