Sometimes there can be a person in your life who is extremely annoying. They keep appearing and interfering in your business.
What can you possibly do? Strangling them seems like a great option, but you do not want to spend the rest of your life in prison.;) Telling them your opinion in a heated conversation feels powerful, however that will not get you far because everyone feels that their own opinion is correct and all others are wrong. It would be a clash of egos and will get you nowhere.
First of all do not label this as a negative situation. Even if it is hard for you at the moment to extract something positive out of it, be thankful that the hateful person showed you how to love yourself even more.
Their action towards you shows where they stand in their life and, obviously, if they are mean they are insecure, have many issues and, most importantly, that they are very disconnected from their source energy. They will try everything to put you down and make themselves feel better and are very defensive if you point out their faults. You can see their desperation for well-being. Now what matters the most is your response towards unreasonable people.
If you get emotionally affected by an attack, then you are agreeing with these annoying people and you feel that whatever they are saying about you is true. At least some part of you feels persuaded by them otherwise you would not be buying their attack. These people are your excuse not to feel good, be out of alignment and not let abundance come into your life.
The difficult person created a version of you and you created a version of them, mostly because both of you rely on past experiences with each other. By thanking them for showing you that you have not been loving yourself as much as you should, you create a different version of them and their version of yourself will also change. More and more you will not see their reflection of fear towards you. They will still exist and live their life putting other people down and insulting them, but they will leave you out of it, because you are willing to love yourself more. You have to let them be themselves and let them live their own life in order to allow the reality you want to be in.
This is a shadow play. You are constantly shifting from one reality to another one. If you focus on getting more annoyed you will pick up more of this type of person into your life, but if you stop entertaining them, they will totally disappear. If you are not fully aligned with what you want, you will attract mixed people for a while. One day you will only interact with people that have a similar vibration to yourself.
You cannot change anyone in this world, and it is not your duty to do so, but it is in your hand if you want to be controlled or take control over your own reality. Always remember one thing: a mean person reflects exactly what you are not!!! You decide what is true and what is a lie!